Having the obituary already written and on file with your funeral provider, is not as difficult to do as you may think. Unfortunately, however, it is inevitable, which means, that at some point or another we will all be faced with the planning of a loved one s funeral.
Services are really about love. In trying times it can be a struggle to keep your composure, however making notes will help you focus. You won't be expected to express the thoughts and feelings of everyone present, nor to give a detailed account of the life of the deceased.
It is best to go with a funeral home that has a reputation for care, compassion, and attention to detail. If you and the deceased were co-workers, then talk about how great he performed his job, his dedication to doing his work and his ambition to do well in his chosen career. Memories are bound to come up during your conversation with the aggrieved, and no matter how repetitive it might become, just try to be patient in listening.
Now, all you have to do is to find a practical way, using poems for the deceased, to remember that as you go through your daily life. Writing a eulogy should not be taken lightly.
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