Close family members and friends are also asked to speak on the subject, but may not know what to say. They have a lot of positive effect because something which is beautifully written and sensible expressed can actually have a soothing effect on the bereaving.
Eulogies may be written in various ways. We learn to cope with the situation at least temporarily. Sometime you find yourself not saying anything at all and that can be even worse than saying the wrong thing.
Having very definite ideas on what they want, they leave detailed instructions on how they wish to be honored. You'll only have to speak for five to ten minutes, your gift will live on in the hearts of the deceased's family and friends. Many families today do not participate in an organized religion or church.
Keep in mind, when writing a eulogy, this type of speech should last anywhere from four to ten minutes. Ultimately, the most important thing is to reflect the unique personality of the deceased.
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