Thursday, June 4, 2009

top funeral songs - About Funerals

This is perhaps one of the most difficult moments in one's life. One reason for the elaborate ceremonies around death is to help with that loss.

Going through some of the funeral poems with friends and family members really helps, some of the poems may make you laugh because they are such the complete opposite of the person you've just lost that you have a good laugh about it. Only time heals such grief but in the mean while if there are words of comfort sometimes they help the grieving people by giving them a different perspective of the unfortunate event. You can feel free to draw on the thoughts of a large group of people for their recollections, feelings and opinions, and speak on their behalf as well as expressing your own personal thoughts.

Writing about a person who is no longer alive is very difficult and writing about their death is worse. Noteworthy personal habits and a little humor are usually mixed in with mention of special accomplishments and attractive personality characteristics. You should refer to the deceased person by name, using no other terms.

Practice delivering your eulogy in front of a mirror or a friend in order that you can see if improvements or additional editing have to be made. If you find it hard to think of moving things to say, you may want to look at various sources for inspiration or short quotes to include in your speech.

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Anonymous said...

Thanks for this nice post. These songs are really top and nice one.... It's very memorable and In my life I first time heard to this song.

alice