You are not only talking about the death of a loved one but also about how that person lived their lives. Even reading funeral poems for someone close can be a very hard and traumatic experience, although this is one thing that I'm glad I did.
The most common and sincere way of extending your sympathy is to say I am sorry to the bereaved for his loss. Services are really about love. Memorial poems are becoming more and more popular to remember a deceased friend some time later after losing a loved one.
It is wise to develop a theme to give focus on your speech. They become a reflection of ancestors lives for generations to come. You'll only have to speak for five to ten minutes, your gift will live on in the hearts of the deceased's family and friends.
I know some of what you are feeling right now which is why I wrote these articles. If you find it hard to think of moving things to say, you may want to look at various sources for inspiration or short quotes to include in your speech.
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